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The
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Lebanon,
NJ - Baptist
Camp Lebanon, where Michelle and I worked for the summer.
Michelle held the position of Program Coordinator while I played
at being Staff Advisor. Over the past four years, Michelle and
I have been volunteer directors for Senior High week. This year,
we knew we had a challenge before us: last through seven weeks
instead of just one, create a community for the staff that was
loving and affirming, and make positive relationships with the
campers.
Michelle was nervous coming into
this new place that, historically, had been Michael's (he went
to camp here as a child and worked on staff for many years). However,
she did an amazing job as program coordinator, making the camp
run much smoother than it has over the past few years. Before
camp started Michelle was the "transportation Goddess"
for the Word and World
school in Philadelphia, and a part of the local organizing committee
(the G.O. team). As she puts it, she was "in the zone"
to do the logistics that was needed at camp. In fact, upon her
arrival at camp, she helped Don (the director) create a schedule
for the staff orientation. She also helped Michael plan and run
staff trips. The staff went to a Somerset Patriots baseball game
(where Michael led the crowd in Bugaloo, a camp song), to the
observatory, multiple trips to WalMart and the mall, the movies,
South Street in Philadelphia and, the Christian Coffeehouse in
Collingswood. She also planned a staff campfire. One of her favorite
jobs was a default position that she took on when she learned
that we hadn't hired enough people for the waterfront crew. Every
day, faithfully, she oversaw the multicolored (welcoming and affirming)
"buddy board" which let the lifeguards know at a glance
who was in or out of the pool. She was best known for the phrase,
"If you feel sick or have to go to the bathroom... GET OUT
OF THE POOL!" Which was effective... most of the time.
Michael's main job was to take care
of the staff. He planned bible studies for each day (a few of
them he even thought were good), with a staff meeting on Fridays.
The favorite part of his day was getting to do the ropes (challenge)
course. Before the camp season began, Lebanon paid to have him
certified to do the different elements and games. During the training,
he learned he had many connections with the instructor (for instance
she was best friends with the teacher he interned with in Philly)
and had a good time. The ropes course teaches team building and
positive problem solving, which is something that the campers,
hopefully, will take with them through the rest of their lives.
There were times, more than he'd
like to admit, that he did the old "foot in mouth" tango.
One time, after a talent show during Junior High, Michael went
up to close the evening, pray and dismiss the campers back to
the villages. He started out thanking people for organizing and
participating in the talent show. After the applause and working
them up, Michael put on his "soothing voice" and started
talking into the mic, saying, "There are a few other people
I'd like to spank." Although he meant to say, "thank",
the room lit up again in laughter. Michael doesn't blush often...
There were hard times throughout
the summer, but we were able to pull through and lift each other
up. We missed our community and found it tough to forge a new
one here. There were many staffers that we built great relationships
with and got to know real well. So many people did such an amazing
job, it's hard to know how to write about it. We were thankful
of the new friendships formed, and old friendships rekindled.
It was an amazing summer, a true testament to the Spirit, a place
to see (though sometimes clouded) the Reign of God.
North
Brunswick, NJ, home of the Brix parents-
We came here after camp was over to reorganize and head down to
Williamsburg, VA for the Brix family vacation. We were on the
road for 5 minutes and the transmission went into eternal neutral.
Bummer. So we had to get it rebuilt, which drained a fairly huge
chunk of change from our bank account. This job is not a one-day
task, so Williamsburg had to wait. Fortunately, Dad Brix had left
his car at the house, so we decided we could take it to VA and
come back to pick up the RV. UN-fortunately, he had taken the
key with him. So he overnight mailed the key to us and we took
off for a seven-hour drive for a now 2-day vacation.
Williamsburg,
VA - The vacation was fun, though we didn't get
to take the RV and we drove almost as long as we stayed. My sister
and brother-in-law were there and we hadn't seen them in a while,
so we caught up and had fun together. The two of them have a friend
who was working at Busch Gardens, so Trish, Liz, Darren, Michelle
and I went to the park for virtually nothing. We walked around
all day (thank goodness for the camp training!) going from big
roller coaster to big roller coaster. In the "weird experiences"
department: we ran into our cousins, aunt and uncle (on the Brix
side) while we were at the park. They were also on vacation (from
Connecticut). It was good to get some home cooking though; Mom
made a delicious vegetarian sauce for the spaghetti.
View
of the sunset off the back porch |
Outer
Banks (OBX), NC - The
simple way annual retreat. Our good friends, the Morgans,
let us use their beautiful house in Avon as the setting for a
wonderful week. It was great, after being away for three months,
to reconnect with our community. It is such a blessing that we
have their support and love for the undertaking of this journey.
That sentiment was just revisited time and time again as the community
held decision-making and personal check-in meetings. We had a
special time with brooke and Shane for our "partner"
gathering. During times that we weren't meeting (significantly
more free time than past retreats) we went to the beach, hung
out, ate good food, swam (or walked) in the sound, or just caught
up on our rest and reading. Amber and Roseabell also came along
as they are deciding wether or not to journey deeper into community.
Jamie made friends with a Canadian couple that was vacationing
with their family across the sound from us. We had them over for
dinner and talking one night. Michelle and I made spaghetti and
a veggie sauce (like mother, like son!) and we had some good talks
over "a bottle of red, a bottle of white". They were
very interested in environmental justice and had read about us
in Adbusters, so it was
cool to get to know them.
Even our discussions went
relatively well. We are growing up as a community and as individuals,
so there is much to talk about as we grow and change. On the horizon
this year, there are many exciting projects and ways to facilitate
relationship-building in the neighborhood. For us, we are excited
about connecting with other people in our journey, and letting
them know about what the community is doing and learning from
their journeys as well.
Betsy Morgan told brooke that
we had to spend one night watching the sun go down over the sound,
drinking a glass of wine. Unfortunately, every evening had enough
clouds to obscure the sunset. On our last day, Shane, brooke,
Jamie and the others had already left, leaving us alone to hang
out and finish cleaning. Before we pulled out, we noticed that
the sun was starting to go down, and the sky was clear! Together,
we watched the sun dip down into the water and slip out of sight.
It was a beautiful end to our vacation.
Salisbury,
MD- Salisbury was a town Michael and I expected
merely to drive through on our way back to Philadelphia, but Providence
had other ideas. The transmission, which had been acting a little
sketchy during the trip, flopped again in this quaint college
town. We got towed to a little trans shop called Vernon's and
met a great guy named Sean who was appointed to fix the trans,
again. (Thankfully, we had gone to a place in NJ that had a national
warranty, so we were set...sorta. I mean, we couldn't go anywhere
but at least we didn't have to pay for anything!) Sean was a busy
dude, and had trouble figuring out what had gone wrong with our
little house on wheels, so it was looking like we were going to
have to spend the night in the RV in the shop. At closing time,
Sean invited us to his place (he only lived a few blocks from
the shop) to hang out and have dinner with him and his little
family-- his girlfriend Jessica, brother Brandon, friends Tara
and Hillary, big puppy Verbal Kent and lots of fish. We had a
great time with them, and the next morning Sean rode his bike
to the shop so that Michael could use it and we could ride bikes
around town and not have to sit there all day watching the single-car
train that came by every 3 hours, That evening we headed back
to Philadelphia, somewhat limping, only to return to the shop
in New Jersey all over again. |